At the heart of every transformation is a story

One of resilience, hope, and the unyielding power of change. Tonier Cain has inspired countless individuals to embrace their own journeys of healing and self-discovery. Through her unwavering commitment to addressing trauma and her ability to connect deeply with others, Tonier’s impact resonates far beyond the stage. This page is a testament to the lives she’s touched, featuring heartfelt accounts from those who have experienced her message firsthand.

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In my estimation, Tonier is the most inspirational and impactful mentor/leader in the field of trauma-informed care that we have in the US.

-- Alissa Soucy-McBride

Supervisor Women's Reentry Initiative at
Family Services of Montgomery County
, Malvern, Pennsylvania

I had the pleasure of sharing the stage with Tonier at the PESI Annual Trauma & Addictions Conference in 2024. Tonier and I engaged in a fireside chat where we were able to talk about her story, and discuss recommended changes for treatment programs and therapists to make to be the most trauma-informed we can be.

When we met, Tonier was professional but very kind and welcoming. I immediately felt respected and seen by her, and it was so easy to talk with her. She spoke about her life and past as something that’s made her strong and helped her understand her role in making the world a better place.

Something that stood out to me was Tonier’s ability to immediately connect with the audience. She was telling her story and informing them, but she made eye contact with them, explained her point of view, and answered all of their questions with grace and honesty. Tonier has a unique ability to make everyone feel like they can come as they are and be accepted. Tonier is an excellent spokesperson for the trauma-informed movement, and I felt honored to learn from her and speak with her.

-- Madison Hamm

LCSW-Collaborator at the 2024 PESI Conference in Florida
Therapist - Grace Therapy & Wellness
, Austin, Texas

“Neen,” I am the woman whose life you have changed. I do trauma work today because of you.  I became a city councilwoman in St. Louis because of you. I now work for Congresswoman Cori Bush because of you. Thank you. Thank you for using your learned experience to change the lives of so many.  Thank you so much for having the courage to be vulnerable and transparent.

I simply love you. ❤️

-- Aja La'Starr Owens

Community Health Commission of Missouri, City of Jennings, MO, and Make What About Us Foundation, St. Louis, Missouri

Wow! What a great weekend featuring special guest Trauma-Informed Care Expert Tonier Cain hosted on our United Way’s 100th anniversary birthday weekend in partnership with New Life Temple of Holiness, Inc. and the office of Plymouth County District Attorney. Tonier shared some of her RICH Approach (Respect, Information, Connection, Hope) trauma-informed care training resources with a wide variety of community partners. Thank you, Tonier! We were honored to have you this weekend. INCREDIBLE work!

-- United Way of Greater Plymouth County

Plymouth County Massachusetts, U.S.A

Ah-mazing and inspirational Tonier Cain! Keep your heart fueled with this passion! You are genuine, raw, and a wonderful and talented speaker. Thank you!

-- Ashley McDonald

USA

Dynamic speaker who delivered her testimony and inspired me to dig deeper for a true healing and forgiveness of others.

-- Monica F. Johnson

Empowerment Coach at The REAL You, LLC
Realizing Every Advantage in Life
, Santo Domingo, Dominican Republic

Tonier, so far our prison volunteers have been able to distribute “Healing Neen” to women in two different facilities in the State of Maine. Just last night, I sat in a circle of women in a local jail who spoke of how moved they were by your story, how much it mirrored some of their experiences, and how it has given them hope for a transformed future. Thank you for sharing your story with us!

-- Deborah Clavette Jacobs

Maine, USA

Thank you for coming to the West Virginia Handle with Care Conference and sharing your amazing and powerful story! You are most definitely an inspiration!

-- April Oaster Miller

Hendricks, West Virginia

Tonier was our guest speaker today and was so inspiring and brought tears to my eyes and joy to my heart. Lovely and strong woman. So happy I got to meet her.

-- Barb Hiob

Aberdeen, Maryland

I’m so happy y’all got her as the opening speaker!

-- Robin C. Donart

United States

We’re so thankful that she could come as well. Her perspective is invaluable, and her energy and attitude are contagious! 🙂

-- Family Focused Treatment Association – FFTA

Atlanta, Georgia

Thank you for sharing your amazing story of hope with DCCCA and the Kansas Opioid and Stimulant conference attendees. So inspiring and you are helping us improve lives! 🤩

-- Kelly Garcia

Edmond, Oklahoma

RESILIENT – I didn’t really know the meaning of this word until today when I heard Tonier Cain share her story of deliverance from addiction, homelessness, and extreme trauma. She has demonstrated incredible resilience and now helps many others achieve their own freedom. So grateful for today’s special Resilient event and for all those who serve to help women like Tonier find their own deliverance through the love of God.

-- Jeannie Homrich Henderson

Kalamazoo Gospel Ministries, Kalamazoo, Michigan

I will remember Tonier Cain’s testimony! I am so grateful I got to hear her story. It changed me!!

-- Milan Prevention Coalition

Milan, Tennessee

Her message was truly beautiful and full of hope. What a privilege it was to hear her speak. I was glad that I got to meet her too.

-- Jenn Savin

RN Field Nurse at Amedisys Home Health, Aberdeen, Maryland

You and your story are so powerful!!! We are discussing trauma-informed care, and we are discussing your story…. Love you..and what you stand for!

-- Cris Renee

Parole Officer at Texas Department of Criminal Justice and Social Worker at Child Protective Service, Texas, USA

I had the pleasure of hearing you speak in Tacoma, WA, about 7 or 8 years ago. You were AMAZING!! I still think of some of the points you made that day…THANK YOU for sharing your story!

-- MissChanay Jones

United States

I had a chance to speak to you for a brief moment at the event in Martinsville this morning, there was so much I wanted to say to you but there just wasn’t enough of you to go around lol. This morning you touched my heart more than you’ll ever know and inspired me to dig down and really get some help getting passed the pain so I can be strong enough to help others, may not be to the degree that you do but if I can touch just one life with my story and experiences then I will be so grateful🤗

-- Chrissi Workman

United States

You give me hope. You are such an inspiration!!! I heard your story for the first time today— My heart is touched and my perspective about myself and my future has totally changed! 

Be blessed!

-- Maranda Payne

Johnson County Health and Rehabilitation Center, Hagarville, Arkansas

I appreciate you coming out. I was a total fan girl when I realized it was you speaking. You are powerful!!! I work with survivors, and I’m a survivor myself. You have no idea how you’ve helped me grow and heal. Thank you.

-- Amber

Willing Hearts Outreach #WHO Non-Profit, Tulsa, Oklahoma

I heard her speak today. She made me cry, she made me laugh, she made me mad, and she made me want to be better, all in less than 2 hours. God is using her for His glory.

-- Ramona Ratto

Permanency Case Manager at 2INgage, Social Services Director at Northern Oaks Living & Rehabilitation , Southern United States

Ms. Cain is a phenomenal and genuine sweetheart! Blessed Woman of GOD and highly favored and chosen of GOD! GBU Sister, upon every great work that you’ve done and continue to do to helping and empowering others! We Love Ya Sis!

-- Flolita Davis

United States

Thank you, Tonier “Neen” Cain for sharing your inspiring message at the 2024 Kansas Opioid and Stimulant Conference! Your passion to assist those in their recovery journey makes a significant impact and is truly appreciated!

-- DCCCA

The Northeast Kansas Counseling and Resource Center Kentucky, United States

Her compelling life story of resilience and recovery from life’s battles are encouraging and will challenge others in situations that are seemingly impossible to have hope and believe that change is possible.

-- Oluwatigbemiga Oluwadamilare

Director at Centre for Social Protection & Policy Studies,
University of Lagos, Nigeria
, Sheffield, England

Ms. Cain’s speech for the 18th National Conference on Child Abuse and Neglect’s YouTube video really helped me. That particular speech touched me. She talked about how trauma, neglect, abuse, addiction, and homelessness are all interconnected and lead from one to another. She talked about retraumatization, what recovery and rehabilitation is like, what brushing her teeth represented, what a support system meant, what a belief system meant, how society’s systems hurt people like me and makes it harder to get out of homelessness, and it kicks us while we are already down.

She talked about things that people around affected individuals wouldn’t understand. And though there are individuals who may understand it, not a lot of them have the will to talk about it. But Ms. Tonier Cain did, and she still does. She talks about what no one else is willing to say it because she’s experienced it.

The way Ms. Tonier Cain expresses and communicates, and articulated the pain and the understanding of it all really touches me and left an impact on me, and it stays with me. It resonated with me because when I go back to listen to it, to watch it, and I feel understood while undergoing through hardship and adversity for such a long time. I don’t feel like I am judged or crazy. Listening to it still does help me a lot. Knowing that I am not alone.

-- Shawn

A viewer in Florida of the 18th National Conference on Child Abuse and Neglect on YouTube, held in Washington D.C. by The Department of Health and Human Services, Children's Bureau: An Office of the Administration for Children & Families.

One of the most amazing humans God has ever made.

-- Laura Guerriero Gollon

Palm Coast, Florida

Ms. Cain was our Keynote speaker at our IJJA – Idaho Juvenile Justice Conference on 9/11/17. The room is full of Adult and Juvenile Probation Officers and treatment providers, and she was very riveting. We LOVED seeing someone who had so many low points in her life come so far to where she is telling her story to Probation Officers to help us see how ANYONE can change their life and to not give up on someone who wants help and has struggled along the way. She received a full room standing ovation because she really does inspire us to try just a little bit harder sometimes. I am very much looking forward to reading her book to learn more. Her humor and forgiveness are infectious. Thank you, Ms. Cain ♡

-- Carol and Jake Negley

Idaho, U.S.A

Inspirational speaker and so excited about what she’s doing.

-- Teli “Cheekbones” Johnson

CEO/Founder at TS Colors and Skin Care Glen, Burnie, Maryland

Tonier Cain is why we need to continue to administer justice with compassion and an eye toward helping people turn their lives around.

-- CHC Addiction Services

Community Health Center - Prevent, Treat, Recover, Akron, Ohio

Awesome motivational and inspirational story.

-- Kevin Bryant

Therapist at The Adanta Group and Employment Specialist at,
The Adanta Group
, Liberty, Kentucky

This amazing, fearless woman of God is a real-life changer. Her story has caused me to want to follow in her footsteps in advocacy, education, and support for those who suffer from mental health issues and are pushed aside. Tonier, don’t you ever stop following God and His plan. Continue on and just know that your labor is not in vain.

-- Sophia Shamara

NAMI Orange County (National Association on Mental Illness), Southern, California

Tonier Cain thank you for sharing your story! Your presentation was wonderful as always.

-- Prevent Child Abuse Illinois

Springfield, Illinois

Inspirational speaker! Thanks for sharing your story. Great way to kick off FFTA!

-- Angie Gee-Thomas

Executive Director West Virginia/Virginia at Pressley Ridge, Fayetteville, Virginia

Thank you for sharing your story. You touched many lives today! I had to leave the conference early as I had an appointment with a patient. As I met with her and completed her assessment, I put my pen down and asked her, “What happened to you?”…she looked down, and when she looked up, her eyes were filled with tears she said, “No one has ever asked me that question before.” Thank you for the reminder of the importance for us to slow down and really listen, really provide safe space for those we serve. ❤

-- Lois Miller-Martone

Attendee Ashtabula County Prevention Coalition P.A.R.T Conference , Geneva-on-the-Lake, Ohio - 2024

Today I was privileged to attend the Texoma Community Behavioral Health Conference with Tonier Cain as the keynote speaker. Her story was humbling, and her tenacity inspiring! I have a much better understanding of #traumainformedcare. My mind was absolutely blown away. 

She was so awesome. What a tenacious individual doing remarkable things with experiences that some might say would inhibit themselves from accomplishing anything at all.

-- Sean Norton

Texoma, Texas

Tonier, we watched your video “Healing Neen” in our Psych 285 class at Brookdale Community College in NJ. Powerful! Our Professor saw you in person. She said you were riveting! You have changed each of our lives! Thank you for being such a blessing and honestly for showing the world what the real act of forgiveness means!

-- Mary E. Travostino

Mindshift Transformations , Spring Lake, New Jersey

I heard her at my school this year at NCI, Martinsville, VA. She’s touched my heart because I know some of her pain. I truly recommend anyone who’s hurting to hear her story. There is hope and His name is Jesus. Love the wonderful outcome of your ashes to beauty.

-- Milette Wright Canty

Martinsville, VA

Hearing you today in Rochester was Incredible! You are such an inspiration and I’ve never been so captivated by a speaker before. Thank you for all you do for your community! 💜

-- Toni Lantz

Care Manager at Liberty Resources, Rochester, New York

I love how she believes in God to turn things around and her story is so touching.

-- Tamara Saddler

Kingston, Jamaica

She is #MySHERO! Inspirational, REAL, Informed, the epitome of Deliverance, and a willing vessel of God.

-- Felishia McPhereson

NC-Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Network, Dunn, North Carolina

You are one amazingly powerful woman. Thank you for sharing your story with us today. Everyone has a story, and you inspire us to help our clients become authors!

-- Katie Lou

United States

CONGRATULATIONS!!! Tonier has been selected as a Hall of Fame member by the Museum of African American Addictions, Treatment and Recovery for her outstanding contributions to the treatment and recovery among African Americans. We’re so excited! This is an amazing accomplishment. We look forward to many more years, servicing those that are in need of support.

-- Museum of African American Addictions, Treatment and Recovery

United States

A pure inspiration. Love you “Neen,” and thanks for the encouragement.

-- Veronica Aileen Grant

Annnapolis, Maryland

You just spoke at our All Staff agency for Tulare County. I want to thank you for sharing your story. It was very relatable. I appreciate who you are. A living reminder of how resilient and strong we are. ❤️

-- Constance Marie

Exeter, California

The testimonials shared here are a celebration of connection and change. They reflect the profound influence of Tonier’s work and the courage of those who’ve embraced her message. We invite you to explore these stories and see how one person’s passion for helping others can ignite hope in us all.

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